Make the Radical Choice to Be Happy No Matter What

Make the radical choice to be happy no matter what.

Happiness is right here right now always, if we choose it. I promise!

You and I place too many terms and conditions on our happiness. We say:

  • I’ll be happy if…
  • I’ll be happy when…

Yet we achieve those conditions and they may bring momentary happiness. Then we’re right back into dissatisfaction.

It’s not surprising. Our mainstream culture is a skilled merchant in unhappiness, fear, and dystopia. They sell it in bulk on the regular. We are easily swept into these eddies of dissatisfaction. If we’re not careful, they become our home.

I’m preaching at me as much as you this morning. I do it too. I place small print terms and conditions on my happiness. I waste days waiting and working for my conditions to materialize.

Buddha said, “The worst things in the world are desiring something and getting it.” I believe he was talking about this very cycle. We’re stuck in desiring rather than enjoying life. Then we get what we want and it loses its charms and appeal.

It IS a radical choice to be happy no matter what in such an environment. So, how do we achieve it?

Powerhack:

  1. Choose happiness over and over moment after moment. There’s no shortcut. Every moment presents us with a choice to be happy or be stuck in wanting and waiting.
  2. Be here now. This was the famous advice of Ram Dass. Most of our unhappiness, if you pay attention, exists in the past and the projected future. This moment is wonderful, if you choose to see it.
  3. Spend more time with roses and jasmine. This was the solution proposed by Rumi to his poetic question, “When you go to a garden do you look at thorns or flowers?” See the positive around you now.
  4. Be still and know. God or the universe, however you term it, has your back. Good things are coming. Be happy about them before they even arrive.
  5. Drop your terms and conditions and just be happy.

You are all awesome! Thanks for reading today’s post.

Ray

No Matter What Affirmations

Happy Friday, everyone! Regardless of what today brings, these “No Matter What” affirmations will keep you on track and on purpose.

Just in case no one else has reminded you today, you are a one-in-a-trillion miracle.

Ray

14 Purpose Affirmations

Few things are more determinative of outcomes in your life than the feeling that you have a purpose. When your actions of meaning in a bigger plan or toward a bigger goal, they seem to have more meaning and drive a better result.

Here are some affirmations to keep you on purpose today and all week. Remember, affirmations are most effective when they are used with repetition and belief. If some of these resonate with you, write them down and post them in you4 work area or say then to yourself repeatedly during the day.

Watch, then, your purpose come into sharper focus and your outcomes benefit.

Just in case no one else has reminded you today, you’re awesome!

Ray

16 Inspiring Entrepreneur Quotes

It’s my firm belief that every human being has at least one book in them. It’s probably equally true that most of us have a business within us, if we’re willing to take the risk and face the challenges associated with bringing it to fruition.

If you’re on that journey now or you’re contemplating ways to get out of the rat race, do something closer to your life’s mission, and seize control of your financial future, the quotes will inspire and inform.

Just in case no one else has reminded you today, you are awesome!

Ray

The Placebo Effect – Words and Beliefs Are Powerful

Happy Wednesday, my friends.

You probably know that the first hurdle every prospective drug must jump is The Placebo Effect. Did you know, though, that it averages about 22 percent?

I’m not surprised is you didn’t. It’s not a number the pharmaceutical industry has a vested of interest in advertising. That means, on average, patients taking a pill, with no known curative affects, get better 22 percent of the time just because they believe they’re taking medicine that will help them.

That’s WITHOUT even trying. Imagine how powerful your mind can be when you focus on an outcome.

It’s not to say that we don’t need medicine or that our thinking alone can heal us. I think it’s powerful tool in your toolkit, though, and one you certainly want working with you and not against you.

Your beliefs and your words have so much power! They can help you be braver, stronger, and more resilient. Here are a few #Rayquotes to add to the magnificent manifester that is your mind.

Just in case no one else has reminded you today, you ARE awesome!

Ray