Building Strong Relationships Affirmation

This meditative affirmation infuses your mind with a firm belief that you are fantastic at building and maintaining relationships. Listen to the recording in a quiet place where you can close your eyes and really focus or listen passively.

For best results, listen with headphones or earbuds and listen regularly.

THE AFFIRMATION:

  • First person: I build and maintain strong relationships with the people around me. (repeats 18 times)
  • Second person: You build and maintain strong relationships with the people around you. (repeats 18 times)

Thank you stopping by. I appreciate your support of this blog and my work. Just in case no one else has reminded you today, YOU ARE awesome!

Ray

One-Hour Meditative Law of Attraction Affirmations Video

This is hands down the best set of affirmations I’ve ever used or recorded. I’ve been using them since 1991 and first recorded them in 1993. This 2019 update is fantastic meditative experience that infuses your mind with the expectation that the people, places, and circumstances you seek in your life are on their way right now.

This hour-long recording is great for listening while you sleep or do tasks during the day. The mindset of attracting the things you want helps to align you with the universal principles of attraction (attracting what you see) and synchronicity (getting what you seek at just the right time).

For maximum impact, listen for at least 21 days. Try listening to them while you sleep. I used these for years during sleep.

Thank you all for your support of my work. I’m eternally grateful! Remember, in case no one else has reminded you today, you are awesome!

Ray

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The Affirmations

  1. Whatever I need always comes my way.
  2. The people I need to meet always come my way.
  3. The information I need in my life always appears to me exactly when I need it.
  4. The doors that need to open always open for me.
  5. I attract money with every decision I make.
  6. I have everything I want and I am creating through my own effort and through the grace of divine light and love in my life.
  7. It is not the mountain I conquer but myself. I am reaching for the top of the mountain and my day in the sun is here.
  8. I am constantly health and wealth into my life.
  9. I am constantly attracting the perfect friendships into my life.
  10. I am constantly attracting the perfect work situations into my life.
  11. I am the heir to an abundant universe and today I claim my inheritance.
  12. I always have options.
  13. Life is good.
  14. I am constantly attracting positive people into my life.
  15. I am constantly attracting positive situations into my life.
  16. I am constantly attracting positive experiences into my life.
  17. I am constantly attracting successful people into my life.
  18. I am constantly attracting successful situations into my life.
  19. I am constantly attracting successful experiences into my life.
  20. I am constantly attracting more money into my life.
  21. Money flows to me easily and effortlessly.
  22. Love flows to me easily and effortlessly.
  23. Peace flows to me easily and effortlessly.
  24. I put out a positive vibration into the world and it returns to me multiplied.
  25. I give generously and it returns to me multiplied.

Valentine’s Day Affirmations

Valentine’s Day is fast approaching. It’s a day when we celebrate the concept of romantic love. For those of you fortunate enough to have that special someone in your life, congratulations. Enjoy and cherish that opportunity to spend your life with someone who means the world to you. What an amazing gift to find that best friend, partner, and lover for life.

For those still searching, take heart. Use this Valentine’s Day to celebrate your love for yourself. It’s a lot better than spending the day unhappy and depressed. When was the last time you did something really nice for yourself? Do it Sunday!

I spent a lot of Valentine’s Days wishing I could find that special person to make that special connection. It was when I began affirming and consciously attracting that person rather than wishing that things changed for me.

I was 34 years old when I met April. There is nothing in this world like finding that right someone to spend your life with. Whatever your situation, affirm where you are now and affirm where you want your current relationship or a perspective relationship to be.

When you do amazing things begin to happen. Your someone is out there too!

So, this Valentine’s Day, whether you’re in love or in looking, here are some affirmations to celebrate, attract, and appreciate love into your life.

In Love

  1. I am a great wife/girlfriend. I’ve mastered the art of when to give my husband/boyfriend love and support and when to give him his space.
  2. I am a great husband/boyfriend. I always remember to do the little things that makes my wife’s /girlfriend’s life happy.
  3. It’s not perfection, but connection I seek in my relationship and today I find it!
  4. Today and every day, love is the foundation of my relationship and joy is the result!
  5. I am perfectly attuned to my soulmate. We are two beings working together towards common goals.
  6. Today and every day, my world is a better place because [insert name] is a part of my life!
  7. My relationship is rooted in the fertile soil of love. Stormy moments only push the roots deeper.
  8. My relationship is becoming more loving and more open each and every day.
  9. My soul mate and I are two parts of one whole. Nothing can keep us apart!
  10. Today I remember there is more to my relationship than always getting what I want!
  11. I care about and contribute to my partner’s happiness, but I am not responsible for it.
  12. My [significant other] and I are a team. We are defining and achieving our dreams together.
  13. Today I am committed to my relationship. I want it to work and it is!
  14. Day in and day out, my relationship embraces me with feelings of connection and love.
  15. I am enjoying a relationship that brings the love and understanding I deserve in my life.
  16. Today and every day, my relationship thrives on love and acceptance.
  17. Today I nourish my most important relationship so that it can flourish far into the future.
  18. My relationship is what I make of it and I CHOOSE to create a relationship that nourishes my spirit!

Attracting Love

  1. I deserve a great guy/girl in my life! He/she is coming my way right now!
  2. I am attracting a relationship that brings the love and understanding I deserve in my life.
  3. Opportunities for love are abundant in my life!
  4. Today I know that Mr./Ms. Right is coming my way now. I can just feel it!
  5. Today and every day, I am meeting interesting (guys/women) with soulmate potential!
  6. I am whole and complete with a relationship or without!
  7. My soulmate and I are on an unavoidable collision course. Today we are one step closer to finding each other.
  8. Today I am attracting only the most incredible men/women into my life!
  9. There is someone out there for me and today I am closer tha ever to finding him/her!
  10. The woman/man of my dreams is walking into my life right now!
  11. I attract only the relationships I deserve. Today I get the best because I deserve the best!
  12. Every relationship risks heartbreak, but there is a relationship out there for me that is worth every risk!
  13. Today I am making room in my life for the special relationship I seek. That relationship is coming to me now.

Distance Love

  1. The distance is a plus in my relationship right now. It forces communication and communication builds trust.
  2. Today and every day the distance between us is bridged by love.
  3. Miles can separate our bodies, but I refuse to let them separate our hearts!
  4. Today and every day, I send my heart to you at the velocity of love!

Remembering Love

  1. I experience this wave of pain today, but I deserve the best in my relationship and I will have it!
  2. Often I grieve for my loss, but today I am healed by the memory of our love.
  3. Today I am strong enough to face all my tomorrows because of all my yesterdays with you!
  4. True love never dies and today I am warmly embraced by our endless love.

Healing a Relationship

  1. My relationship is a cornerstone in my life. Today I seek solutions not blame!
  2. Our relationship is built on forgiveness. Today forgiveness is creating a new day for our relationship!
  3. I willingly give respect in my relationship and I demand the same in return!
  4. I am trusted to the degree I trust. Today we are building a relationship fueled by the trust I give!
  5. I willingly give respect in my relationship and I demand the same in return!
  6. As I become a stronger person, I become a better partner!
  7. I lovingly stand my ground in my relationship and demand the respect I deserve!
  8. Today I am rebuilding my relationship. I am absolutely committed to making it stronger than ever before.
  9. I am 100% committed to saving my relationship. Today I communicate it unequivocally on every level!
  10. I am a strong, independent person who is absolutely committed to making my relationship work.
  11. Today my relationship is built on the desire to be understood rather than the need to be right.

Self Love

  1. I AM beautiful! I AM worthy! I AM me and proud of it!
  2. My beauty flows from inside to out. As I recognize my inner beauty, my outer beauty blossoms.
  3. To see the beauty I want to see in the world, I must first see it in me. Today I see it clearly!
  4. I unconditionally love and respect myself in every way.
  5. Those who told me I was unworthy were wrong. I AM worthy! I’m more sure of it today than ever before!
  6. I am the best thing that has ever happened to me. I am glad to be who I am!
  7. As I feel more attractive, I AM more attractive. Today I am very attractive!
  8. Being who I am is a blessing and a rush. There’s no one else I’d rather be!
  9. I am a unique and worthy person. I require no more justification than that to be exactly who I am.
  10. I am beautiful in mind, beautiful in body, beautiful in spirit.

Stay committed to love in all things!

Ray

You ARE Worthy of Love – Day 45 of 365 Days to a Better You

Love someone and find someone to love.

Let’s take a break today from 10 Empowering Ideas. We’ll come back to that tomorrow. Today is the day of romantic love – St. Valentine’s Day.

Let’s just start here. If you’re reading this and you’re still breathing, YOU ARE WORTHY OF LOVE. PERIOD!

Finding someone to love and who loves you back is one of the most sacred and gut-wrenching endeavors of our lives. Like so many things in our society, we’ve turned it into a kind of transaction. I’ll trade you my beauty for your wealth and success or I’ll agree to ignore your flaws if you’ll ignore mine. Will you please, please, please love me because I need someone to.

My wife, April, has been a big fan of the Bachelor/Bachelorette franchise for many years. Time and again, you see smart, beautiful, talented people leave that show, muttering through their tears something to the effect of, “Why won’t anyone ever love me?”

You can see the pain on their faces and the deep-seated concern that, despite all they obviously bring to the table, no one could or will ever love them.

I feel that every time because I spent quite a few years in my teens and 20’s feeling that exact way. During the early part of that period I was painfully shy and lacked the confidence to even ask someone out. In the later part of that period, I had a number of relationships where I was putting the love and effort in, but there was no love or effort coming back to me. I had a number of Bachelor moments wondering, sadly, if I was just cursed by love or unlovable.

I went through some counseling to deal with the self-esteem and the “I’m not lovable” aspects. I also decided I was not cursed. I just needed to find someone who appreciated what I brought to the table and stop focusing my time pining away for those who didn’t. In my early 30s, yes my 30s, I made it a key focus of my life to find love.

You know, there’s an ancient Greek myth that is the source of our concept of soulmate. The gods feared that human beings would one day ascend Mt. Olympus and threaten the rule of the gods. The story goes, that humans were exactly twice as big in those days and included both a masculine and feminine side. The gods devised a devious plan to keep humans occupied and their rule safe. They split humans into two – the male and the female – and condemned humans to spending their lives trying to find their other half. Thus preoccupied, they had no time or energy to battle the gods. Damn those gods!

It’s an interesting story and when you’re looking for love, it can sure feel like “the gods” are working against you. Don’t give up! Don’t give in! Keep looking! I GUARANTEE you there is someone out there who will be thrilled to love you and that you will be thrilled to love.

If you think you know who that someone is, get in the game now! Take action. Be bold. When is a better time than Valentine’s Day to just go for it?

Here’s a clue. If he or she is alone, they’re probably looking too. Trust me, they’re not as perfect and “above you” as you think. Send the card, the flowers, or the chocolates. Put yourself out there. It’s a risk, but a WORTHY and WORTH IT risk.

For those of you who have found that special someone, cherish it. Nourish it. There’s nothing better than having that partner, friend, and lover to go through this life with. Finally, when I was 35, I met April. We’ve now enjoyed an amazing 20 years together. Every year has been an adventure. We challenge each other in good and, sometimes, challenging ways. We have a built-in best friend. There’s nothing like it.

For all of us, finding someone to love in this world is a noble endeavor and a hard-fought accomplishment. Who are we to question who other people love? Two souls finding each other in this twisted maze of our world is an amazing thing and always worthy of being celebrated and respected.

Here are a few dozen affirmations (since I can’t send you roses) to help propel you wherever you are on your journey to love. Wishing you a beautiful Valentine’s Day with your cherished one. If you’re without this year, seriously, there’s NOTHING wrong with you. Your moment and your person is out there. If you’re still looking for him or her, he or she is still looking for you.

Love, peace, and happiness.

Ray

 

Five Affirmations for Your Life

It’s Friday! I hope you feel a sense of completion, as this week pushes to completion. Here are some affirmations to power you home today.

Thought of the Day
There are three unstoppable forces in our world – the rising Sun, a rushing wave, and a determined mind.

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Today’s Affirmations

  1. Change Affirmation: Beginning today, what serves me stays and what fails me goes!
  2. Self Affirmation: Being who I am is a blessing and a rush. There’s no one else I’d rather be!
  3. Confidence Affirmation: Big things happen for me when I get my small thinking out of the way!
  4. Business Affirmation: I am flawlessly executing my business plan and I am succeeding brilliantly.
  5. Relationship Affirmation: Today I am on a direct collision course with my soulmate. Love is on the way for me!

Stay inspired! You are the engine of your dreams!

Ray Davis is the founder of The Affirmation Spot. He’s spent more than 25 years studying personal development and especially writing, recording, and using affirmations to achieve his goals. His eBook – The Power to Be You – offers 416 life-changing and original quotes, ideas, and affirmations to take you to new levels of achievement and reflection.

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