Let Love, Compassion, and Peace Decide You

Something will decide you. Let it be love, compassion, and peace.

If you allow the anger and the vitriol to win, you eventually become filled with it.

If you allow “Us” vs. “Them” to triumph, we’ll wind up with an unhappy cinder of a world.

Be open to change. Be open to new ideas. It’s the way of our Universe. Nothing, nothing, stays the same forever. Stopping change is impossible. We can only hope to mold it into something more productive and that helps more people.

A really famous guy counseled to walk a mile in the other person’s shoes today. If you do, I promise, you’ll find a sympathetic figure wanting most of the same things you want. If one mile doesn’t get tou there, walk two. If you’re still angry at the person, you haven’t walked far enough.

The sky is a big place for a narrow mind and a closed heart. Let yours be opened from horizon to horizon. See with new eyes.

Yes, something will decide you. Let it be love, compassion, and peace.

Just in case no one else has reminded you today, you’re awesome!

Ray

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Anger Never Heals

As sure as 2+2 does not equal 5, anger + anger never equals peace, contentment, or healing.

We live in a world that’s too often filled with anger. Some have just causes for their anger. Others just have unresolved issues lingering in their lives that cause them to lash out at the world. Still others were never taught other tools for dealing with their feelings beyond anger.

The relative anonymity and distance of social media makes it simple to torch other people, their ideas, and their motives.

Whatever the reasons for the anger or the justifications, the equation still holds. Anger + anger never equals peace, contentment, or healing.

Yet, if you look at many of the forces trying to reshape the world, it is anger that drives them. In a world where facts morph and people need scapegoats for their paradigms to work, it’s easy to see to why.

But I tell you this and say it clearly. No solution to our challenges will be conceived anger or its allies blame, hatred, and violence. The belief that these mindsets can fix a world already drunk on them is delusional.

Because of the immutable equation above, angry mindsets, motives, and ideologies cannot mend and heal an angry world. They may believe their ends justify their means, but their success can only result in another version of an angry world.

All the great teachers from all the great faiths – living and dead – have spoken with one voice on this. It is love, it is compassion, it is peace that can remake this angry world. Despite thousands of years of these wise teachings, it’s still easier for many people to rise and live their days filled with anger, blame, and hatred. They speak of “those people” – whoever those people are to them. They point fingers and they scheme win the game by wiping alternative views off the board. They follow leaders and voices that stir their anger rather than their humanity.

General Omar N. Bradley aptly described our dilemma at the dawn of the nuclear age.

We have grasped the mystery of the atom and rejected the Sermon on the Mount. Ours is a world of nuclear giants and ethical infants. We know more about war than we know about peace, more about killing that we know about living.

We must get it through our heads that we are ALL in this together. For better or worse, we are passengers on this tiny little blue marble spinning precariously through a vast dark cosmos.

Peace is the way forward. Love is the way forward. Compassion is the way forward. It’s that simple and that hard. There are no exceptions to the rule. Anger begets anger. Love begets love.

The choice, as it always has been, is ours.

Just in case no one has reminded you today, you ARE awesome!

Ray

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Valentine’s Day Affirmations

Valentine’s Day is fast approaching. It’s a day when we celebrate the concept of romantic love. For those of you fortunate enough to have that special someone in your life, congratulations. Enjoy and cherish that opportunity to spend your life with someone who means the world to you. What an amazing gift to find that best friend, partner, and lover for life.

For those still searching, take heart. Use this Valentine’s Day to celebrate your love for yourself. It’s a lot better than spending the day unhappy and depressed. When was the last time you did something really nice for yourself? Do it Sunday!

I spent a lot of Valentine’s Days wishing I could find that special person to make that special connection. It was when I began affirming and consciously attracting that person rather than wishing that things changed for me.

I was 34 years old when I met April. There is nothing in this world like finding that right someone to spend your life with. Whatever your situation, affirm where you are now and affirm where you want your current relationship or a perspective relationship to be.

When you do amazing things begin to happen. Your someone is out there too!

So, this Valentine’s Day, whether you’re in love or in looking, here are some affirmations to celebrate, attract, and appreciate love into your life.

In Love

  1. I am a great wife/girlfriend. I’ve mastered the art of when to give my husband/boyfriend love and support and when to give him his space.
  2. I am a great husband/boyfriend. I always remember to do the little things that makes my wife’s /girlfriend’s life happy.
  3. It’s not perfection, but connection I seek in my relationship and today I find it!
  4. Today and every day, love is the foundation of my relationship and joy is the result!
  5. I am perfectly attuned to my soulmate. We are two beings working together towards common goals.
  6. Today and every day, my world is a better place because [insert name] is a part of my life!
  7. My relationship is rooted in the fertile soil of love. Stormy moments only push the roots deeper.
  8. My relationship is becoming more loving and more open each and every day.
  9. My soul mate and I are two parts of one whole. Nothing can keep us apart!
  10. Today I remember there is more to my relationship than always getting what I want!
  11. I care about and contribute to my partner’s happiness, but I am not responsible for it.
  12. My [significant other] and I are a team. We are defining and achieving our dreams together.
  13. Today I am committed to my relationship. I want it to work and it is!
  14. Day in and day out, my relationship embraces me with feelings of connection and love.
  15. I am enjoying a relationship that brings the love and understanding I deserve in my life.
  16. Today and every day, my relationship thrives on love and acceptance.
  17. Today I nourish my most important relationship so that it can flourish far into the future.
  18. My relationship is what I make of it and I CHOOSE to create a relationship that nourishes my spirit!

Attracting Love

  1. I deserve a great guy/girl in my life! He/she is coming my way right now!
  2. I am attracting a relationship that brings the love and understanding I deserve in my life.
  3. Opportunities for love are abundant in my life!
  4. Today I know that Mr./Ms. Right is coming my way now. I can just feel it!
  5. Today and every day, I am meeting interesting (guys/women) with soulmate potential!
  6. I am whole and complete with a relationship or without!
  7. My soulmate and I are on an unavoidable collision course. Today we are one step closer to finding each other.
  8. Today I am attracting only the most incredible men/women into my life!
  9. There is someone out there for me and today I am closer tha ever to finding him/her!
  10. The woman/man of my dreams is walking into my life right now!
  11. I attract only the relationships I deserve. Today I get the best because I deserve the best!
  12. Every relationship risks heartbreak, but there is a relationship out there for me that is worth every risk!
  13. Today I am making room in my life for the special relationship I seek. That relationship is coming to me now.

Distance Love

  1. The distance is a plus in my relationship right now. It forces communication and communication builds trust.
  2. Today and every day the distance between us is bridged by love.
  3. Miles can separate our bodies, but I refuse to let them separate our hearts!
  4. Today and every day, I send my heart to you at the velocity of love!

Remembering Love

  1. I experience this wave of pain today, but I deserve the best in my relationship and I will have it!
  2. Often I grieve for my loss, but today I am healed by the memory of our love.
  3. Today I am strong enough to face all my tomorrows because of all my yesterdays with you!
  4. True love never dies and today I am warmly embraced by our endless love.

Healing a Relationship

  1. My relationship is a cornerstone in my life. Today I seek solutions not blame!
  2. Our relationship is built on forgiveness. Today forgiveness is creating a new day for our relationship!
  3. I willingly give respect in my relationship and I demand the same in return!
  4. I am trusted to the degree I trust. Today we are building a relationship fueled by the trust I give!
  5. I willingly give respect in my relationship and I demand the same in return!
  6. As I become a stronger person, I become a better partner!
  7. I lovingly stand my ground in my relationship and demand the respect I deserve!
  8. Today I am rebuilding my relationship. I am absolutely committed to making it stronger than ever before.
  9. I am 100% committed to saving my relationship. Today I communicate it unequivocally on every level!
  10. I am a strong, independent person who is absolutely committed to making my relationship work.
  11. Today my relationship is built on the desire to be understood rather than the need to be right.

Self Love

  1. I AM beautiful! I AM worthy! I AM me and proud of it!
  2. My beauty flows from inside to out. As I recognize my inner beauty, my outer beauty blossoms.
  3. To see the beauty I want to see in the world, I must first see it in me. Today I see it clearly!
  4. I unconditionally love and respect myself in every way.
  5. Those who told me I was unworthy were wrong. I AM worthy! I’m more sure of it today than ever before!
  6. I am the best thing that has ever happened to me. I am glad to be who I am!
  7. As I feel more attractive, I AM more attractive. Today I am very attractive!
  8. Being who I am is a blessing and a rush. There’s no one else I’d rather be!
  9. I am a unique and worthy person. I require no more justification than that to be exactly who I am.
  10. I am beautiful in mind, beautiful in body, beautiful in spirit.

Stay committed to love in all things!

Ray

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As many of you have already guessed, I’m referring to the number of seconds in a day.

Afternoon check. How many have you spent in mindsets of joy, peace, love today; and how many in stress and anger?

You don’t get a grade on this test or a kudos on this report? You don’t have to share your answer with anyone but you.

Your reward for getting it right? More joy and peace and live in your day. As Jeff Probst would ask, “Worth playing for?”

I hope you won reward!

Ray

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Love Is… A Collaborative Blog – The Affirmation Spot for Sunday June 24, 2012

Love is many things to many people. This week I’ve been asking my Twitter followers to finish the sentence Love is… Your responses  were witty, wise, fun, and insightful. Normally, I create the content for my blog, but this time YOU did. Thank you to each one of you for participating.

Here is the amazing wisdom you contributed. I have linked to each person’s Twitter profile. If you’re on Twitter, please show them some love by following. It these words spark a Love is… in you, tweet me at @affirmationspot and I will add yours.

  1. @Breezy2345 Love is patient.
  2. @Brooktini84 Love is needed.
  3. @Brooktini84 Love is what keeps people going.
  4. @Brooktini84 Love is what makes the world turn.
  5. @Brooktini84 Love is your best friend and your worst enemy.
  6. @Brooktini84 Love is undefined.
  7. @Brooktini84 Love is a way of life.
  8. @Brooktini84 Love is what I hold in my heart.
  9. @Brooktini84 Love is what makes me who I am today.
  10. @Brooktini84 Love is timeless.
  11. @AwesomeYoga Love is knowing YOU ARE the creative life force energy of the universe.
  12. @PapaSmurf1456 Love is a determined, naive and powerful thing, hell-bent on its manifestation and right to Be; however justified or NOT.
  13.  @BDelagraentiss Love is the definition of God.
  14. @jim7226 Love is EVERYTHING.
  15. @NikiChiLicious Love is in action.
  16. @NikiChiLicious Love is as love does.
  17. @MbalenhleSishi Love is joy!
  18. @MbalenhleSishi Love is joy in your heart!
  19. @aLUVleigh123 Love is all you need.
  20. @aLUVleigh123 Love is. It just is.
  21. @aLUVleigh123 Love is something we are.
  22. @Lebo_Molabe Love is when you’re having inner joy and peace.
  23. @Lebo_Molabe Love is when it’s fulfilling to be every woman to your man.
  24. @cpaul2011 Love is like peeing your pants. Everyone sees it but only you can feel it!
  25. @Ms_Polished Love is the absorption of silence.
  26. @Ms_Polished Love is acknowledging that everyone has love within.
  27. @Ms_Polished Love is wanting to understand the other person, and making every effort to do so.
  28. @Ms_Polished Love is intense, deep listening, finding compassion, and being empathetic to other person/party.
  29. @b3lla_h0ney Love is more than an emotion, it is a decision, a habit practiced daily.
  30. @kissalex Love is everywhere!
  31. @kissalex Love is the only thing that’s real.
  32. @chuckdurfee Love is a gourmet meal made by your beloved.
  33. @lannie91 Love is inspiring and should be unconditional.
  34. @GiamHamm Love is elusive.
  35. @sowmya Love is knowing your own limitations, being vulnerable and trusting someone enough to let them be a part of it.
  36. @MyMariaMore Love is “the solution”.
  37. @iyaelsorai Love is healing. Love is courageous.
  38. @aanchall Love is beautiful.
  39. @Tefae Love is sweet, loyal, real, happy, committed, and beautiful.
  40. @Tefae Love is I’m dying to me to take care of you.
  41. @DustyStarks Love is YOU
  42. @ashleySHOOTS Love is the melody of mind and spirit, dancing to the beat of the heart.
  43. @kansas_patrick Love is all we need.
  44. @WriteReason Love is euphoric!
  45. @Nena_Mia_ Love is pure power.
  46. @Nena_Mia_ Love is more than a feeling, It’s an act.. Kindness, Compassion, understanding, Patience, Respect, etc.
  47. @jayQu_deMI Love is blind and it’ll take ova ya mind.
  48. @embracingchoice Love is acceptance of another’s soul even when we don’t agree with their behavior. ~Susanne
  49. @TR401 Love is hope at its best and truth at its worst.
  50. @TheJosieN Love is You.
  51. @Nelsok89 Love is, therefore I am.
  52. @zfree Love is our very nature.
  53. @bhanks Love is. Simply is.
  54. @IPhilSoChi Love is trust.
  55. @Zaraah79 Love is Life X.
  56. @BodyloveRocks Love is the reason I am here …. Love is in my breath in every cell of my being and the most healing power EVER! x
  57. @ParadoxalChris Love is accepting someone for who they truly are, standing by them thru whatever come your way, & forgiving them always!
  58. @KellyAMeerbott Love is the answer to every question. Love is my husband.
  59. @Tefae  Love is generous, gentle, happy, forgiving, forever, passionate, connections, sensitive, fun, exciting, wonderful, peaceful, and loving.
  60. @cpnj Love is unconditional.
  61. @MsV247 Love is necessary.
  62. @livelovealoha Love is everything.
  63. @CleanSheetUK Love is giving and serving. Nurturing and supporting. Practical compassion.

Follow your bliss. Experience your bliss. Become your bliss.

Ray Davis is the founder of The Affirmation Spot. He’s spent more than 25 years studying personal development and especially writing, recording, and using affirmations to achieve his goals. His eBook – The Power to Be You – offers 416 life-changing and original quotes, ideas, and affirmations to take you to new levels of achievement and reflection.

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