Confidence Affirmations

Today’s quote:

“There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do.”
~ Marianne Williamson

Today I am featuring some affirmations on confidence. Confidence is so important to success. Confidence is not a house we build once in our lives and reside blissfully there forever. It is a quality we must constantly nourish and an encourage.

It waxes and wanes depending on the circumstances. The reasons for that are many. Our past experiences, learned beliefs and responses, and people around us can all influence how confident we are – in general and in particular circumstances. Well, let’s be more accurate. Those conditions can dent our confidence, if we give them the power to do so.

We have a choice. We have the ability, as Wayne Dyer says, “To be free of the good opinions of others.” We can create a self that does not allow circumstances to diminish our confidence and resign us to mediocrity and inaction.

Some people fear that confidence borders too much on egotism, boastfulness, or conceit. They are concerned that it’s prideful and somehow not in keeping with their spiritual beliefs. The truth is confidence is none of these things. Confidence is simply developing an internal sense of the sovereignty you have to be the person you are and have the things you want. It is not about mistreating others or thinking you’re better than them. The truly confident person encourages others to claim their confident nature too.

Here are some affirmations to stir and build your confidence. They speak to many different situations and to people at different levels of confidence. Choose the ones that speak to you and make you feel better.

  1. Today I AM the person I came to this planet to be!
  2. I came here to be a great and conscious being and so that is what I am.
  3. Today I AM confidence armored with the power of my beliefs and strength of my abilities.
  4. Life is about choices and today I am making all the right choices for me!
  5. I am always a great bet! Today I am making it happen!
  6. I am bigger than any doubt, bolder than any fear, and stronger any obstacle!
  7. Today I stand up! Today I stand strong! Today I stand out!
  8. Today a pandemic of confidence spreads through my every thought and action!
  9. I am undeniably amazing!
  10. I CAN! I know I CAN! And today I AM!
  11. My endeavors impact things positively! I AM a difference-maker!
  12. Today I am confident because I KNOW my best days are ahead of me!
  13. Today my life blooms in ten shades of awesome!
  14. I bring a balanced attack of talent, intelligence, and creativity to every endeavor!
  15. Given the choice to be popular or be myself; I CHOOSE to be myself!
  16. Today is my day! I am rushing like a tsunami unstoppably towards my goals!
  17. I bring value to every interaction I am part of today!
  18.  I am a find-a-way, make-a-way person! Anything is possible for me!
  19. Opportunities are multiplying for me as far as the eye can see!
  20. Today I bring my A-Game to everything I do!
  21. Today I win the battle in my mind the world becomes a push over!
  22. Every single time I feel I am ‘less than’, I remind myself that I am a one-in–a-trillion miracle.
  23. My confidence is sky high and I have the talent, skills, and determination to back it up.
  24. Today I shine with the full glory and brilliance of a summer Sun.
  25. I am a powerful being with a purpose to fulfill. Today I am fulfilling it!
  26. Breathing in, I feel confident. Breathing out, I am confidence.
  27. Being who I am is a blessing and a rush. There’s no one else I’d rather be!
  28. I have a vision for my life! I have potential and possibility and today I am living up to it!
  29. Whatever this day brings, I can and I do handle it!
  30. Today I silence my doubts, ignore my critics, and follow my intuition and talents to my dreams.
  31. My life is going places today! One word keeps running through my mind. YES! YES! YES!
  32. A highly confident, highly competent person lives within me. Today that person shows up in my life!
  33. I have experienced this situation many times before and I will handle it brilliantly!
  34. My vision is clear! My mind is determined! MY moment has arrived!
  35. I am a great starter and a better finisher!
  36. I look people I meet squarely in the eye, firmly shake their hand, and see myself as their equal.
  37. Breathing in, I feel my anxiety. Breathing out, I choose my confidence!
  38. Today is my day! I am generating a winner’s momentum to carry me through to success.
  39. Today I take pride in my business and my skills. How dare I deny the world my gifts by acting small!
  40. Today and forever I release my doubts about promoting what I do. I have a great gift to give and today I give it!
  41. Today I am eliminating the word impossible from my vocabulary. I am 100% possible!
  42. I am a model of peace and tranquility. I remain, in all circumstances, calm, cool, confident, and collected.
  43. Today I am giving the world the gift of the real me!
  44. I handle my responsibilities with confidence and joy.
  45. I have the mental strength, emotional stability, and balance necessary to deal effectively with my challenges.
  46. I am a rising star! Good things are on the way for me.
  47. Today I am a stronger person than I was yesterday. Tomorrow I will be even stronger.
  48. I am going BIG because I am NOT going home!
  49. Today I am sharing my talents with a world thirsty for what I have to offer.
  50. I have the inner resources to face whatever comes my way!
  51. Nothing can stop me when I bring my A game! I always bring my A game!
  52. I am a goal setter. I am a trend setter. I am a paradigm shifter.
  53. The higher I climb, the brighter I shine!
  54. I AM courage! I AM wisdom! I AM strength. I AM able to handle what life sends me today!
  55. When I feel helpless I remember I AM powerful. When I feel weak I remember I AM strong!
  56. When the game is on the line, I am at the top my game!

Follow your bliss. Experience your bliss. Become your bliss.

Ray Davis is the founder of The Affirmation Spot. He’s spent more than 25 years studying personal development and especially writing, recording, and using affirmations to achieve his goals. His eBook – The Power to Be You – offers 416 life-changing and original quotes, ideas, and affirmations to take you to new levels of achievement and reflection.

anunnaki_cover_full_colorAnunnaki Awakening: Revelation, Ray’s first novel,  is turning heads and opening minds. Humanity’s past is checkered, secret, and dangerous.

White House Correspondent Maria Love is on to the story of her life and with the help of an Anunnaki leader seeks to unravel and reveal history’s biggest conspiracy. The Awakening has begun!

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The Self-Confidence Manifesto Revisited – The Affirmation Spot for Sunday July 24, 2011

Today’s Thought:

“I learned this, at least, by my experiment: that if one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life which he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours.”
~ Henry David Thoreau

This article originally appeared on the TAS Blog in November 2007. I originally wrote much of this in 1990s. It seemed like a good moment to share it again. If you read this to yourself, you can feel your confidence rising and your stress melting away. Why a manifesto? This self-dialogue is full of self-declarations of your readiness to move forward to healing, success, peace, or whatever your immediate goals are.

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Confidence! What is it? How do you get it?

The first key is to realize that you have the courage, the wisdom and the strength within you to make the changes you want to make in your life; to bring about the healing you seek, the happiness you desire, and the abundance you deserve. For, in truth your healing and growth come from within. Others may facilitate or act as mediators, but it is the healer within you that is bringing about the miracle you are receiving right now. Know this deeply and without doubt!

Focus your healing energies on bringing about an end to your suffering. This healing is occurring within you right now. It is not far off in the future. Your healing is a reality right now in this moment. You are experiencing a complete healing. Your mind, body, emotions, and spirit are all benefiting. Joy is increasing and expanding in your life exponentially. Your horizons are growing brighter and brighter. Become the joy!

You are opening your heart and your mind to possibilities you had never before considered. Right now you are accepting that anything and everything is possible for you. You understand that the circumstances in your life are always perfect to create the highest version of yourself and manifest any dream. Your tools, your gifts, and your talents are more than enough to create a life of abundant success and happiness. Feel the joy increasing in your life. Become the joy!

Feel your confidence rising. There is no situation you cannot handle. There are no limits to what you can achieve. Nothing can occur that you can’t learn from and turn to your advantage. As your joy increases and your happiness manifests; there is less room for fear in your life, less room for self-doubt. These aspects of your thinking are vanishing before your eyes. Your confidence is building. Be the confidence!

In fact, you are, as I speak, releasing your fears, releasing your self-doubt. They serve no purpose in your life. So you are releasing them and letting them go. You are successful. You think like a success, you talk like a success, you act like a success. You are a success! Your success is complete; encompassing all aspects of your life. Be the success!

Your spiritual life is a success, your career is a success, and your relationships are a success. You are a success. And success means progress in every area of your life. You are releasing the habitual patterns of thought and action that have held you back in the past.You are releasing thoughts and actions that limit you in any way, shape, or form. By releasing these limiting patterns in your life; you are now completely free to live your life in this moment and to create your highest good in the here and now.

You are replacing that old thinking with thoughts focused on joy, confidence, success, health, and abundance.  You are determined to be fully present in the experience of now. You are intuitive, creative, and spontaneous in creating your new life – each moment, each day. Be the knowing!

Feel the harmony, strength, and confidence this knowing creates deep within you. You are becoming the person you always knew you could be right this moment!

Follow your bliss. Experience your bliss. Become your bliss.

Ray Davis is the founder of The Affirmation Spot. He’s spent more than 25 years studying personal development and especially writing, recording, and using affirmations to achieve his goals. His eBook – The Power to Be You – offers 416 life-changing and original quotes, ideas, and affirmations to take you to new levels of achievement and reflection.

anunnaki_cover_full_colorAnunnaki Awakening: Revelation, Ray’s first novel,  is turning heads and opening minds. Humanity’s past is checkered, secret, and dangerous.

White House Correspondent Maria Love is on to the story of her life and with the help of an Anunnaki leader seeks to unravel and reveal history’s biggest conspiracy. The Awakening has begun!

Say Absolutely! – The Affirmation Spot for Tuesday April 27, 2010

Today’s Thought:

“When failure becomes your teacher, success becomes your future.”
~ Ray Davis

Have you ever noticed the power that words have to transform people and situations? Years ago I was teasing someone at work by saying “absolutely” to every thing she said. For some reason, it put me in the habit of saying “absolutely” to things in life.

When someone would ask me a question, rather than saying yes or sure, I got in the habit of responding, “absolutely”! I became aware that my own sense of resoluteness and confidence was buoyed by saying the word. I also noticed that other people seemed to respond well to someone saying, “absolutely”.

People would comment that someone saying that word so enthusiatically was refreshing and inspiring. So, I kept doing it. Today I answer absolutely practically and metaphorically in life. I’ve found the word has a power and surety about it that people seem to want to experience.

So, here is my challenge to you. When someone asks you to do something tomorrow say enthusiastically, “absolutely”! Amid the gray, unenthusiastic responses they experience all day, your “absolutely” will stand out.

Do I guarantee it? Absolutely!

Stay inspired!

Ray

One in a Trillion Miracle – The Affirmation Spot for Friday January 15, 2010

Today’s Affirmation

Today I recognize the miracle that I am and all the other miracles that surround me.

mist-481710_640Well it’s Friday and in case you were thinking it is the end of “just another week” here are some things to ponder.

Someday we will all face the end of our walk in this form.

Sometimes during the course of “just another week” we don’t recognize how precious each moment is and how quickly all this is passing us by. We forget what a miracle it is that any of us are here at all.

Have you ever really considered just how many unlikely things had to happen for YOU to be here, or, for that matter, for HERE to be here?

Every single thing we see around us all day long every day was a one in a trillion shot. Each blade of grass, each cloud, each person, even the traffic jam you found yourself in on the way to work this morning – all are totally unlikely combinations that beat the long odds to burst into existence. That’s nothing short of a miracle.

dragonfly-1729157_640Someday when you do reach the end of this stage of your journey; this “just another week” may seem a lot more special than it does now. You may wish you had stopped to witness and marvel at the whole miraculous play.

Today, make a point to see the miracles. Tell the person you care most about in this world that you love them and remind them that they are a miracle.

And when you encounter the traffic jam on the way home this evening, breathe deeply and say, “Ah, yes. You are a miracle too.” It won’t get you home any faster, but it will make the ride more enjoyable.

Follow your bliss. Experience your bliss. Become your bliss.

Ray

Ray Davis is the Founder of The Affirmation Spot and the author of Anunnaki Awakening: Revelation – order your signed copy today at AATrilogy.com. He advocates for the potential of the human race. He’s life-long history buff and holds a B.S. in History Education. He’s always been fascinated by alternative views of history.

 

Accept Your Greatness – The Affirmation Spot for Monday November 10, 2008

“Never underestimate the power of dreams and the influence of the human spirit. We are all the same in this notion: The potential for greatness lives within each of us.”

~Wilma Rudolph

Your greatness lives within you whether you choose to acknowledge it or not. Why wouldn’t you choose to acknowledge it? How does anyone benefit from you being less than you are? You don’t. The people around you don’t. The world doesn’t.

There is a bright light inside of you. It gets brighter the closer you come to fulfilling your purpose. Some of you are very close to that purpose and the light is intense. If you find yourself casting about in the darkness, you may have moved away from your highest intentions in this life.

I wrote this at a time in my life when I was searching in the darkness:

On my journey this day, I follow in the footsteps of the immortals. The imprints they have left behind on the Earth are large and their strides are a stretch for me. Yet, if I dare not encounter them and measure myself by them, how shall I ever know the true immensity of my own being?

So, I step consciously into the light; walking the path they once walked. Leaving it, occasionally, and improvising. Adding to it qualities uniquely my own.

The light is there, if you look! No matter where you have been. It is still there!

Stay inspired!

Ray

Right Where You Are – The Affirmation Spot for Tuesday October 14, 2008

“Do what you can, with what you have, where you are.”

~ Theodore Roosevelt

The perfect time and the perfect place may never appear in your life. If you are waiting for them, you may never stand on your personal summit. To reach that summit and enjoy your moment in the Sun, you must act.

Theodore Roosevelt was born into wealth and privilege. However, the young Teddy had a series childhood illnesses that made his early years difficult and even life-threatening.

He learned that if he was to achieve he was going to have to act rather than waiting for the perfect time and situation. I believe this is the genesis of this quote. He knew that life’s challenges would stop you cold, if you allowed them to.

Roosevelt overcame his early health issues through sheer will power. He became a household name after he  led his “Rough Riders” in the famous charge up San Juan Hill in the Spanish-American War. Two years later the 42-year-old Roosevelt was elected vice-president under William McKinley. He assumed the presidency when President McKinley was assassinated on September 14, 1901.

Roosevelt reached his personal summit. He could have used his sickish youth as an excuse, but instead he thrived by acting.

Life is about acting and experiencing not waiting. You may have to act in circumstances that are less than ideal. You may have to push forward through personal challenges. It’s OK!

An action taken against the current still gets you further than no action.The time to go is now. Next week, next month or next year are not more favorable, but they will delay your moment on the summit of your dreams.

There are some things you have been wanting to do in your life and you have been putting them off. Set the excuses aside and act!

Take a few minutes today and make a list of them. Once you have your list decide which one is the most important to you and take some action to start moving in the direction of achieving it. Keep your list and come back to the others.

Take President Roosevelt’s advice. Do what you can with what you have and do it today. Perfection? You may encounter it one day, but until then act!

Stay inspired!

Ray

The Power of Our Thoughts in the Financial Crisis – The Affirmation Spot for Monday September 29, 2008

The current global economic crisis clearly demonstrates the power of our thoughts to influence the world around us. Markets are case studies in human psychology. They are a kind of collective mind in action. Our thoughts are really the force that drives them up or down.

The issue becomes who is driving the thinking? Who is creating expectation bubbles and who is popping them? It’s another reason to empower your own thoughts rather than allowing them to be driven by “experts”, politicians, or the media.

When housing prices, the stock market, or any other market rises it is the result of our thinking about them and our belief in them.

It’s not brilliant economic strategies, astute politicians, or suddenly realized value in houses and other assets that causes them to rise 15% per year. Prosperity and rising markets are created by our thinking. As long as our thinking is confident, things are good. When our thinking shifts to fear or worry about markets they begin to contract.

There is a certain collective nature to thinking about these things. When the thinking reaches critical mass (one way or the other) changes happen in the market.

As with other aspects of our lives, our thinking inevitably leads to our actions. When belief and confidence are strong our actions reflect the belief that growth will continue. The danger lies in believing that growth is an uninterrupted straight line. It is possible to make poor decisions or take unwise actions that can lead to problems.

That’s what we see in the current crisis. Very powerful financial companies made some bad bets on based on optimistic assessments. They wrongly concluded that the boom would go on forever and they got over-extended. Because of lax oversight and questionable business practices, they stretched optimism to fantasy land.

Mind you, when this happens real – sometimes negative – events happen in the world.  I’m not saying that thinking can avert the results of bad decisions or actions. I’m saying it is the impetus that drives the market one way or the other.

Why am I talking about this today? As Congress ponders an (imho) ill-advised bailout of Wall Street, the seeds of fear have been planted in the market (our minds) by financial and political leaders. They have set up a scenario that creates a crash, if their bill ($700 billion bailout) is not passed.

Planting these thoughts creates the negative thinking that will bring about a crash, if we are not careful.

The bailout is based on a logical fallacy called There Is No Alternative (TINA). TINA happens when someone says there is a problem and offers a single solution as the only possible course of action. This is almost never the case. It limits thinking into a narrow path of possibility. The fact is we live in a universe full of infinite possibilities. As citizens and people, we need to be on guard against people trying to limit our thinking. It smacks of manipulation and pushing us towards an outcome desired by a small group of people.

In reality, though, we can minimize the extent of these economic events by maintaining stable thinking and not over-reacting. Panic is created when the entire herd decides to run off the cliff – again based on a thought that “there is not enough I better get mine.” That’s what happened in 1929 and caused the great stock market crash that resulted in the Great Depression.

If optimism creates growing markets and pessimism create shrinking markets, it stands to reason that stable thinking can stabilize shaky markets.

A combination of accountability for those who have made bad choices and stable thinking will get us through this situation. Never forget, though, how important the way you think about these events is to how they will come out. Your thinking is a powerful thing. Never underestimate it.

Stay inspired!

Ray