Valentine’s Day is fast approaching. It’s a day when we celebrate the concept of romantic love. For those of you fortunate enough to have that special someone in your life, congratulations. Enjoy and cherish that opportunity to spend your life with someone who means the world to you. What an amazing gift to find that best friend, partner, and lover for life.
For those still searching, take heart. Use this Valentine’s Day to celebrate your love for yourself. It’s a lot better than spending the day unhappy and depressed. When was the last time you did something really nice for yourself? Do it Sunday!
I spent a lot of Valentine’s Days wishing I could find that special person to make that special connection. It was when I began affirming and consciously attracting that person rather than wishing that things changed for me.
I was 34 years old when I met April. There is nothing in this world like finding that right someone to spend your life with. Whatever your situation, affirm where you are now and affirm where you want your current relationship or a perspective relationship to be.
When you do amazing things begin to happen. Your someone is out there too!
So, this Valentine’s Day, whether you’re in love or in looking, here are some affirmations to celebrate, attract, and appreciate love into your life.
I am a great wife/girlfriend. I’ve mastered the art of when to give my husband/boyfriend love and support and when to give him his space.
I am a great husband/boyfriend. I always remember to do the little things that makes my wife’s /girlfriend’s life happy.
It’s not perfection, but connection I seek in my relationship and today I find it!
Today and every day, love is the foundation of my relationship and joy is the result!
I am perfectly attuned to my soulmate. We are two beings working together towards common goals.
Today and every day, my world is a better place because [insert name] is a part of my life!
My relationship is rooted in the fertile soil of love. Stormy moments only push the roots deeper.
My relationship is becoming more loving and more open each and every day.
My soul mate and I are two parts of one whole. Nothing can keep us apart!
Today I remember there is more to my relationship than always getting what I want!
I care about and contribute to my partner’s happiness, but I am not responsible for it.
My [significant other] and I are a team. We are defining and achieving our dreams together.
Today I am committed to my relationship. I want it to work and it is!
Day in and day out, my relationship embraces me with feelings of connection and love.
I am enjoying a relationship that brings the love and understanding I deserve in my life.
Today and every day, my relationship thrives on love and acceptance.
Today I nourish my most important relationship so that it can flourish far into the future.
My relationship is what I make of it and I CHOOSE to create a relationship that nourishes my spirit!
I deserve a great guy/girl in my life! He/she is coming my way right now!
I am attracting a relationship that brings the love and understanding I deserve in my life.
Opportunities for love are abundant in my life!
Today I know that Mr./Ms. Right is coming my way now. I can just feel it!
Today and every day, I am meeting interesting (guys/women) with soulmate potential!
I am whole and complete with a relationship or without!
My soulmate and I are on an unavoidable collision course. Today we are one step closer to finding each other.
Today I am attracting only the most incredible men/women into my life!
There is someone out there for me and today I am closer tha ever to finding him/her!
The woman/man of my dreams is walking into my life right now!
I attract only the relationships I deserve. Today I get the best because I deserve the best!
Every relationship risks heartbreak, but there is a relationship out there for me that is worth every risk!
Today I am making room in my life for the special relationship I seek. That relationship is coming to me now.
The distance is a plus in my relationship right now. It forces communication and communication builds trust.
Today and every day the distance between us is bridged by love.
Miles can separate our bodies, but I refuse to let them separate our hearts!
Today and every day, I send my heart to you at the velocity of love!
I experience this wave of pain today, but I deserve the best in my relationship and I will have it!
Often I grieve for my loss, but today I am healed by the memory of our love.
Today I am strong enough to face all my tomorrows because of all my yesterdays with you!
True love never dies and today I am warmly embraced by our endless love.
Healing a Relationship
My relationship is a cornerstone in my life. Today I seek solutions not blame!
Our relationship is built on forgiveness. Today forgiveness is creating a new day for our relationship!
I willingly give respect in my relationship and I demand the same in return!
I am trusted to the degree I trust. Today we are building a relationship fueled by the trust I give!
I willingly give respect in my relationship and I demand the same in return!
As I become a stronger person, I become a better partner!
I lovingly stand my ground in my relationship and demand the respect I deserve!
Today I am rebuilding my relationship. I am absolutely committed to making it stronger than ever before.
I am 100% committed to saving my relationship. Today I communicate it unequivocally on every level!
I am a strong, independent person who is absolutely committed to making my relationship work.
Today my relationship is built on the desire to be understood rather than the need to be right.
I AM beautiful! I AM worthy! I AM me and proud of it!
My beauty flows from inside to out. As I recognize my inner beauty, my outer beauty blossoms.
To see the beauty I want to see in the world, I must first see it in me. Today I see it clearly!
I unconditionally love and respect myself in every way.
Those who told me I was unworthy were wrong. I AM worthy! I’m more sure of it today than ever before!
I am the best thing that has ever happened to me. I am glad to be who I am!
As I feel more attractive, I AM more attractive. Today I am very attractive!
Being who I am is a blessing and a rush. There’s no one else I’d rather be!
I am a unique and worthy person. I require no more justification than that to be exactly who I am.
I am beautiful in mind, beautiful in body, beautiful in spirit.
I bigger than my doubt! I am bolder than my fears! I am stronger than my obstacles!
Life is unpredictable. Challenges come your way that you never saw coming. Sometimes you can “light and love” your way to all the success and joy you can handle. Other times, it’s a real slog. In those moments, it is an unquestioning belief in yourself that must prevail in your heart and in your mind.
There’s no faking this one until you make it. As the affirmation above says, you have to be bigger than your doubt, bolder your fears, and stronger than your obstacles. For that doubt, those fears, and those obstacles are coming to shut down your dreams, if you’ll allow it. They can only do that if you give up or if you yield.
Know this! You wouldn’t have this goal or this dream unless its achievement or the journey to chase was critical to your being and your well-being.
Every dream any dreamer ever had, at some moment in the process, came down to the strength of dreamer’s determination to win a victory over those internal and external forces that would snuff it out.
You ARE bigger than your doubts. You ARE bolder your fears. You ARE stronger than your obstacles. You ARE destined for great things!
In case no one else has reminded you today, you are AWESOME!
Today and every day, life happens THROUGH me not TO me!
Are you aligned with your true power? Many people believe that life and the world happen TO them. This is a very common and a very disempowering belief. To believe that you are acted upon by forces absolutely beyond your control, leaves you with no recourse but submission. Over time, you feel frustrated and increasingly helpless. You come to believe in luck more than action as force that governs good fortune in life.
Today’s affirmation is message to you. Hear it loudly and clearly . Some of your minds will immediately begin looking for the reasons why it isn’t true. I would encourage you look for the reasons why it is profound truth. What’s at stake? Nothing less than your ability to direct your life and achieve your dreams. Pretty big stakes to leave to fate.